Recommended niceties
Iβm no connoisseur, but I know what I like.
Be bold
I know all my tastesβor even my recommendationsβarenβt for everyone. But I really do love bold aromas, bold flavors, and bold choices. Nearly anything bold, actually.
Thatβs probably why I love cigars, whisky, wine, porters, and any environmental fixture that helps facilitate fellowship over these finer things of life.
Iβm happy to tell you about some of my personal favorites, as these luxurious pleasures are always better when shared. But before I delve into the details, letβs do two things.
First, I want to recognize that these are not necessitiesβtheyβre niceties that Iβm grateful for, but in no way need. Second, letβs start by feasting our eyes on the pleasures firsthand. π
These are some of my favorite colors. Or rather, these colors are representative of some of my favorite things.
Black
There are three types of people in the worldβpeople who love coffee, people who drink tea, and people who enjoy neither. I fall in the former camp as an absolute coffee fiend. The smell of fresh espresso beans is just one of the best aromas in the world to me.
As you may already know, I consider myself an ice Americano addict, and while I could explain lots of reasons for that, itβs simple really: I just love the taste. No cream required, just give it to me straight. Iβll drink it from anywhere, rain or shine, hot or cold.
When Iβm at home, I really enjoy Califia cold brew for both its taste and price. Also at home, my family and I were quite glad to replace our Keurig with a Nespresso Vertuo, and I highly recommend it. Its milk frother alone is worth it. Last but not least, I donβt mind a good french press every now and again, too.
Thereβs nothing wrong if you prefer tea or drinking neither. But Iβll put it plainly: I just donβt understand you if thatβs the case.
Brown
While I try to steer clear of smoking on the whole and Iβve only had one cigarette my entire life (in a Japanese karaoke snack, of all places), I do love a good cigar. Whether itβs an E.P. Carillo Pledge Prequel, an Alec Bradley Prensado, a PadrΓ³n 1964 Anniversary Series, an Oliva Serie V, or some no-name smoke I pick up at my favorite cigar lounge, Magnumβs, so long as the draw is good and flavor is bold, count me in.
I tried smoking a pipe a couple times, but it was just too much work for me. Maybe when Iβm a grandpa, Iβll find the patience required for a good old-fashioned tobacco-filled pipe. Iβll never look like Gandalf as a cranial nudist, but I can at least pretend.
The other brown luxury I quite appreciate is a nice piece of camel leather furniture. From my West Elm mid-century swivel office chair that I (used to) sit in every single day at my (old) home office, to the classy, high quality sectionals, ottomans and benches weβve been fortunate to pick up from Articleβs wide selection of furniture over the years, I love how camel leather complements what seems to be any style or room.
Gold
While most people would attribute the color brown to certain liquors, I know the truthβwhisky should always be considered gold. Other than the outright atrocity of Fireball, I pretty much love any type of whisky (or βwhiskeyβ if weβre talking American and Irish flavors).
I enjoy a high proof, American-made bourbon. Itβs hard to beat the taste or price on a bottle like Early Times Bottled-in-Bond. If weβre talking price, I wonβt even complain about a nice bottle of Kirkland whisky, which are excellently rated while still being crafted stateside.
But my absolute favorite pours come from my absolute favorite destinationβJapan. Though I started with Hibiki whisky by Suntory before it had been named the number one whisky in the world and it became relatively impossible to buy stateside, I appreciate many Japanese offerings. Even though Nicole doesnβt like most Scotch (she hates it too peaty), Nikka Coffey Grain is the whisky I knew would convert herβand it did. Itβs a solid, smooth bottle thatβs always enjoyable, and relatively reasonable in price for the quality.
But the Japanese whisky that absolutely ruined me for most other whisky is Kujira Ryukyu 20 Year Old Single Grain Whisky. I know the price is prohibitive for an everyday pour, but on special occasions, this is worth every single penny. Iβve never had a beverage that has made me swoon with every sip, yet this bottle did it. I took it slowly, and Iβm glad I did, becauseβ¦wow. I highly recommend you grab a drink of this as soon as the opportunity presents itself.
When it comes to places where I like to enjoy the finely crafted beverage, itβs hard to beat the Grey Hen Rx or Magnumβs Lounge, where the ambiance slips me right into relaxation mode. If we havenβt met up there together yet, I hope we do someday.
Red
While pink is my favorite color, I donβt mind the color red, either. Red is the color of a fine wine, and perhaps even more importantly, fire.
On the topic of wine, I canβt remember all of the labels I love, but I can share the flavor profiles. Anything thatβs bold, even a bit peppery, is what I love most. From strong zins to full cabs, malbecs to chiantis, I much prefer these over pinot noirs and generally steer clear of merlots altogether. A Klinker Brick Old Vine Zinfandel is one of my go-tos, but Iβll just as readily enjoy a glass of fine red wine with any dinner.
Though fire never complements the meal as it happens, Iβm quite ready to retire to an outdoor fire with my friends in the later hours of fellowship, as our meals digest. The Solo Stove Bonfire has been an absolute dream for those gatherings, arriving at a solid, steady burn that never causes anybody to smell like a bonfire afterwards. The unique, patented design pushes all of the smoke up straight, allow everyone to enjoy the fire even more, without having to shift seats as the wind blows different directions.
Feel the glow.
Silver
While black, brown, gold, and red niceties are much more fun to appreciate, theyβre more difficult to enjoy without the silver that comes with cigar cutters, lighting paraphernalia, and the ice ball spheres that only a good press or mold can create.
On the topic of cigars, itβs simpleβthe Xicar Xi2 cutter is the first thing you need when it comes to preparing your cigar correctly. While there are plenty of brands and types of cutters out there, this two-sided blade offers a cut which never disappoints. I much prefer it to any type of V-cut or punch cut, and if you enjoy the same, give it a try.
Once you have a freshly cut stogie in your hand, then itβs all about lighting it up. I have a couple types of torch lighters, from handheld torches when Iβm feeling trigger happy, to pocket torches for when Iβm traveling. But the accessory that gets me most excited is the Burner Lighter by Alec Bradley.
Iβve never experienced anything that feels so old fashioned and modern at the same time as the Burner Lighter. With its stout little frame in hand, thereβs simply no better way to light a cigar. It gets the job done beautifully, and itβs a fun piece to talk about with friends. Even my manliest of friends wonβt hesitate calling it both βcuteβ and βawesome.β Imagine that.
And with a finely cut, perfectly lit cigar in hand, now comes the final stepβfilling glasses with an ice sphere that can handle that beautiful golden whisky. I typically prefer my whisky neat, no ice required, but on the rare occasion that Iβd like to tone down the burn just a tad, thereβs nothing quite like an ice sphere to make you feel fancy. Iβm kind of like a kid in that regard, as I just like spinning the thing in my glass.
To make a perfect sphere, there are plenty of ice ball molds out there. The Glacio Clear Sphere Ice Duo works incredibly well and was what I used for a long time, before my friends completely went overboard and splurged to buy me a Cirrus Press Package for the occasions that demand sophistication. Itβs luxuriousβand ridiculously priced, I admit. Thank you, friends!
Theyβre best when shared
Of course, I love the blue of the ocean, the green of the forests, the white of ski slopes, and all the other fantastic colors on the spectrum. But these recommendations are intended to be about the luxuries I enjoy whether on vacation or at home. I hope you might enjoy them as much as I do.
Better yet, if you ever want to schedule a get together over these niceties so we can enjoy them together, connect with me. Iβm always game.